Treatment Options for Binge Eating Disorder

Question from a lovely reader this morning: 

I was wondering what the treatment options are for Binge Eating Disorder. Obviously there are different severities of the disorder and different treatments needed for different people on a case-by-case basis, but I was wondering if maybe you could summarize some of the options out there for some of us.

Basically what I’m saying is, I have Binge Eating Disorder, and it is currently running and ruining my life. I really really need help but I want to know what I’m in for. Is inpatient a thing that happens with BED, ever? Is it usually therapy? What goes on for a typical patient, what is considered “severe,” etc…. I don’t know if there’s one good question in there to answer, but I’m really hoping you might have a bit of input, given that you are a) in recovery and b) on your way to becoming a therapist.

All right, guys. Here’s the truth. Binge eating disorder (BED) has been around for a LONG TIME, but only recently has it officially become a mental illness diagnosis. Research still remains relatively new, but it is emerging! In fact, studies indicate that more people suffer and will suffer from BED than Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia Nervosa, or Eating Disorder NOS. 

Okay, so how do I know if I have this thing?

First of all, this NOT intended to diagnose. These are simply the guidelines. 

As taken from the DSM-V (released in May, 2013). 

  1. Recurrent episodes of binge eating. An episode of binge eating is characterized by both of the following:
    1. Eating, in a discrete period of time (e.g., within any 2-hour period), an amount of food that is definitely larger than what most individuals would eat in a similar period of time under similar circumstances.
    2. A sense of lack of control over eating during the episode (e.g., a feeling that one cannot stop eating or control what or how much one is eating)
  2. The binge-eating episodes are associated with three (or more) of the following:
    1. Eating much more rapidly than normal.
    2. Eating until feeling uncomfortably full.
    3. Eating large amounts of food when not feeling physically hungry.
    4. Eating alone because of feeling embarrassed by how much one is eating.
    5. Feeling disgusted with oneself, depressed, or very guilt afterward.
  3. Marked distress regarding binge eating is present.
  4. The binge eating occurs, on average, at least once a week for 3 months.
  5. The binge eating is not associated with the recurrent use of inappropriate compensatory behavior as in bulimia nervosa and does not occur exclusively during the course of bulimia nervosa or anorexia nervosa.

Specify if:

In partial remission: After full criteria for binge-eating disorder were previously met, binge eating occurs at an average frequency of less than one episode per week for a sustained period of time.

In full remission: After full criteria for binge-eating disorder were previously met, none of the criteria have been met ofr a sustained period of time.

Specify current severity: the minimum level of severity is based on the frequency of episodes of binge eating. The level of severity may be increased to reflect other symptoms and the degree of functional disability.

Mild: 1-3 binge-eating episodes per week

Moderate: 4-7 binge-eating episodes per week

Severe: 8-13 binge-eating episodes per week

Extreme: 14 or more binge-eating episodes per week

My biased opinion on the new diagnosis:

Binge-eating disorder embodies a long overdue addition to our mental illness realm. This disorder is prevalent among both sexes and seems to be the most common eating disorder. Furthermore, binge-eating seems to carry more shame than other eating disordered behaviors, because it is the  “opposite” of what an eating disorder typically does, which is create and facilitate weight loss.  Beyond dieting measures, few people actually receive clinical help for this issue, even though it can be just as fatal and deadly as its other eating disorder counterparts. I think the DSM-V did a good job in explaining the binge-eating disorder diagnosis and creating a sustainable criteria. However, I disagree with the severity quotients. I do not consider just 1-3 episodes of binge-eating as “mild.” Maybe once a week can be considered mild, but three times a week comprises nearly half the week.

Okay, so I want help…what if I have very limited to no money? 

Schools and universities: Most provide free mental health services as part of the overall tuition. This is where I initially started my recovery process as a young adult. Unfortunately, I was denied treatment simply because I was so active in my disorder, but they were able to provide me with referrals. If you are in middle/high school, there are guidance counselors and school psychologists available. Again, this is a good way to get started and obtain referrals for community resources. You never know. Some work on symptom management and reduction. It’s always worth a shot. 

Low-cost therapy: If you live in a metropolitan city, many agencies and even private practitioners offer sliding-scale therapy based on your finances. Other than absolutely free, I’ve seen sessions run for as little as $5. I currently intern for an agency that charges approximately $25-40 per hour. I do not recommend going directly to inpatient without working with a trained outpatient therapist, unless you feel you are in a medical or psychiatric emergency. A trained clinician will be able to assess your situation. Sometimes, inpatient work is necessary, but this tends to happen in extreme cases. 

Eating disorder support groups: There are an abundance. Google is your friend. (I have written extensively about this Twelve-Step organization modeled after Alcoholics Anonymous. Please refer to my blog archives or email me if you have any concerns. Most people in the rooms identify themselves as compulsive overeaters and have struggled with binge eating. There are online meetings available for those who cannot be physically present). (similar to the OA but lesser-known. I have no experience with this organization, but it caters to the entire eating disordered spectrum).

Community therapy groups. Again, use Google. I know therapists who run groups for as low as $10-$15 for 2 hours worth of eating disorder psychoeducation, interventions, and support. 

How do I find a therapist?

First of all, there are so many ways. If you have health insurance, look into your options. You may need to talk with your doctor to see what kind of help is available.

Typical therapy consists of weekly sessions, although it is not uncommon to have more or less frequent ones (ex: 2-3x a week or 1-2 times a month. It depends on the severity. Explore with a therapist. You don’t have to know what kind of care you need just yet. That’s their job). is a good place to start. Or simply Google “eating disorder therapists in (your city).” Look up their credentials. Make sure they are licensed. Call them and inquire. You are potentially a paying customer. You are allowed to be nosy and inquisitive. You deserve the best quality of care! 

I highly recommend finding a therapist who specializes in working with eating disorders. Graduate schools and training programs skim over this disease and few really comprehend the emotional and physical toxicity eating disorders can cause on individuals and their treatment. When making the first contact with the therapist, here are some sample questions to ask: Do you have experience working with eating disorders? Which ones? I have a problem with bingeing; do you know effective treatments that may help me? What is your theoretical orientation? What do you think of the word, “recovered?” 

Cognitive-behavioral therapy is an evidence-based treatment commonly used for bulimia and binge eating.  This therapy targets dysfunctional thoughts and beliefs and helps to identify and conceptualize the binge-eating pattern. Eventually, the client learns his/her triggers and learns appropriate ways to handle them. Ideally, one learns how to cope without food as an emotional mechanism. CBT will also work on rigid distortions about one’s body weight, dieting, perfectionist thinking, and desire for control, all of which are prevalent in BED. CBT sessions are structured, require a relatively high level of motivation, and often include homework.

Dialectical-Behavioral Therapy is similar to CBT except that it focuses exclusively on mindfulness, emotional regulation, and radical self-acceptance  It was designed for treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder, but it has been used in eating disorders and substance abuse populations as well, simply because many individuals with these diseases cannot understand how to live in the present moment and accept what they cannot control. I am personally a huge fan of DBT and am working with a client with Borderline Personality Disorder right now using some of these interventions. So much of her inner self-loathing models that of the eating-disordered mindset. 

Family therapy is often used with adolescents. This systemic therapy takes on the pretense that the eating disorder embodies a familial issue, rather than an an individual one (similar to other addictions). This therapy exhibits the roles each of the family members subconsciously (or consciously) assume in order to maintain the eating disorder homeostasis. This type of therapy has been very effective for treatment of anorexia, but less research has been shown on success rates regarding binge eating. 

What about rehabilitation centers or inpatient care?

I regret to inform that I am NOT well-knowledged on either of these options. However, I do recognize that both of them are typically used in severe cases, and yes, most centers to treat the spectrum of eating disorders, including BED and compulsive overeating. I HIGHLY recommend working with an individual therapist before exploring more intensive care (unless, of course, you are facing a severe medical or psychiatric emergency or simply believe you CANNOT wait any longer). However, he/she will be able to provide you with options, referrals, and a general opinion. 

Rehabilitation centers are extremely expensive, although some do offer scholarships and financial assistance. You will have to do your research. Some have extensive waiting lists. These treatment centers typically offer group and individual therapy, nutrition and meal planning, expressive therapy, weigh-ins, family meetings, etc. 

Again, I am not an expert in either of these options, so I recommend that you consult a medical doctor or mental health professional if you need assistance. 

Will medication help me? 

Maybe. You need to consult with a medical doctor or psychiatrist to obtain a full assessment. The research is mixed. However, because BED is highly correlated with other disorders, especially depression and anxiety, medication may provide some relief, especially if one of the disorders triggers and amplifies the eating disorder.

SSRI’s (antidepressants) remain the standard treatment of choice for eating disorders.

Toparimate (Topamax) has also been used in the treatment of bulimia/binge eating, although it is designed as an anticonvulsant medication for seizures.

Side note: When taking medication, it is BEST to always be working alongside a professional clinician doing some kind of psychotherapy work. The MOST effective evidence-based studies with medication include a therapy component. We all know magic solutions do not exist in a pill. 

Can I just do this on my own? 

Maybe. Plenty of people do! Plenty of people don’t! You are no more inferior or superior than anyone else if you can do it on your own or not!

What are some ways to “do it on my own” right now?

1. Find a way to EXPRESS. For me, it’s this blog. For you, it may be private journals, song lyrics, poetry, artwork, painting, talking aloud in the car about it. You will be FLOODED with thoughts if you don’t have some kind of way to make them tangible.

2. Start a gratitude list. Write down as many things as you can. Add at least one thing everyday. Spend as long as you need to add to it. But keep adding. It will get easier. Life will seem better.

3. Buy some books. I recommend anything by Christopher Fairburn (the scientific pioneer of bulimia/binge-eating treatment) or Geneen Roth (the more holistic, natural author of compulsive and binge eating). Check out Amazon. Browse a library. Books helped me tremendously at the beginning. It was so reassuring to read those pages and just feel like someone finally understood.

4. Do your own CBT! Go to this website:

These worksheets will help you link your thoughts/feelings/experiences. And they’re free! Commit to a week of doing this. See how your perspective shifts.

5. Learn how to deep breathe. Sounds cheesy. Sounds cliched. But people wouldn’t be doing meditation for 348349837439874 years if it didn’t work. Get into yoga. Or just lie naked on your bed and inhale for as long as you can and exhale for as long as you can. Repeat.

6. Do. Not. Starve. Yourself. Under. Any. Conditions. That. You. Have. Control. Over.

7. If you have an iPhone, download the app, “Recovery Record.” It’s free and you can record your meals, track your feelings, jot down thoughts, and watch your progress overtime.

8. Practice positive affirmations. Every fucking day. Collect quotes. I became a quote-fanatic when I first started recovery. I needed that inspiration and motivation.

9. Know your triggers. And make a plan. Whether you follow it or not is a different story, but have some kind of realistic plan for what you will do in a certain situation (ex: at a restaurant/party, alone at home, when eating a favorite food, etc.) It’s important to recognize your triggers. You may have dozens of them. That’s okay. Awareness is key at this point.

10. Recognize the process. It’s shitty; I won’t lie. But in that shit lies some beautiful diamonds. <—- That’s an awkward statement, and I’m tempted to delete it, but whatever. It’s the truth. You just have to keep going. It could take months or several years. Every process is unique. None of them are “better.”

*Some questions to get you started. Some points to ponder (Ps: I’m making them all up on the spot, but I’ve gotten pretty good with my therapeutic open-ended questions, so hopefully these get your noggins thinking). 

What thoughts run through my mind right before a binge? During? After? The next day? 

What’s going well in my life right now? What do I want to change? 

In what ways does bingeing affect my overall functioning and well-being? 

In what ways has my bingeing served me? Harmed me? 

What fears do I have about giving up bingeing?

How would my life be different if I didn’t binge?


What feelings cause me discomfort? How would I tell my best friend to cope with those feelings?

If my five-year-old self could see me during a binge, what would he/she tell me? 


What challenges do I anticipate during recovery?




Whew!! I have probably forgotten things, but it’s nearly midnight, and I’m waking up early tomorrow to run my first expressive therapy group! I was going to do this post sometime this weekend, but I figured if I could potentially influence just one person tomorrow, it will have been worth it. 

Please never hesitate to ask questions! I know how isolating and overwhelming eating disorders are. I will ALWAYS do the best I can to help you in any way shape or form XO 


Goodnight to all my beautiful readers. Shine on! 


5 thoughts on “Treatment Options for Binge Eating Disorder

  1. Just to put my two cents out there, I take ssri’s. No tablet can cure an eating disorder, but the medication certainly helps to control the anxiety somewhat and has helped me to sleep better. Medication is definitely helpful, and I was always previously against it! Doesn’t work for everyone but if it makes more positive than negatives differences, then it’s worth it x

  2. You lovely girl – thank you so much. I never expected you to put this kind of thought/effort into my question and I really really appreciate it. I’m not going to lie, it’s a bit – a lot – overwhelming to even think about recovery or what that would mean or where to start. But knowing there’s a post like this from a blogger I very much trust and admire – well, you can believe I’ll be reading and rereading this in the time to come. Thank you.

  3. Reblogged this on Be Loved and commented:
    Here’s a blog by an anonymous writer, of honest thoughts and experiences with an eating disorder. If you or someone you know struggles with any kind of eating disorder I encourage you to read this, know that there are options and people who care.

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